tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post1108652205631265285..comments2023-09-27T08:37:28.937-04:00Comments on Sarah Solitaire: It's my pity party and I'll cry if I want to. Or not.Solitairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14484347015033286135noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-54921463835773818242008-10-31T12:11:00.000-04:002008-10-31T12:11:00.000-04:00Okay, so I dont like House. I've never actually wa...Okay, so I dont like House. I've never actually watched an episode. But back when it was first starting, when previews were playing, I had a recently been diagnosed with a brain tumor (ended up benign and all is well, but at the time, I was told to prepare for the worse). So I saw a preview for House and he was saying "What's so bad. He has a brain tumor; he's going to die, get over it". I couldnt watch the show. I dont think anyone who has or has had a medical issue or challenge can watch it. <BR/><BR/>Anon may express her opinions, but you know yourself.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14293332995122886819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-55916108663298192952008-10-31T10:52:00.000-04:002008-10-31T10:52:00.000-04:00Yeah! I was wondering how long you would allow an...Yeah! I was wondering how long you would allow anonymous to use your blog, with your well written, beautiful prose, as her soapbox for nastiness. This is your space to write, feel, vent, and share about whatever you damn well please. She obviously has another agenda....and she can get her own blog for it!<BR/><BR/>You have developed a following and a devoted readership because of your honesty and the fact that you share from your heart. Don't let her piggyback onto that to spew her yuckiness for one more second. Delete her from now on!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07303861538066787622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-9169624463476887432008-10-31T08:06:00.000-04:002008-10-31T08:06:00.000-04:00Ok - I get that true friends will tell it like it ...Ok - I get that true friends will tell it like it is - but they're prepared to wear the consequences of speaking their mind, and they will still support you in your decision, even if they don't agree with it. They don't keep harping on about it.<BR/><BR/>You are a strong, beautiful woman who is moving forward with her life. And if that means you come back to trying to be a mother later, well good for you! And this is a blog of your own thoughts - why the heck shouldn't you be allowed to host a pity party for a paragraph here and there. Its a process - you're hardly wallowing!! <BR/><BR/>I do think its a little disappointing Anon feels comfortable making personal judgments on your behalf without allowing any kind of scrutiny or "friendship" offered in return. If she has so much goodwill invested in you, why hide behind anonimity? I don't understand the mindset.Triciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11702271645895394027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-23759360868143609882008-10-31T04:51:00.000-04:002008-10-31T04:51:00.000-04:00Oh, Sarah, no matter how hard we try sometimes, it...Oh, Sarah, no matter how hard we try sometimes, it's hard not to let other peoples zingers get to us. I'm sorry you feel like you have to justify yourself to anyone. It's your life to do what you will, or not, regardless of anyone elses opinion. And, as I'm sure you know anon's feelings have everything to do with her and nothing, really, to do with you. Sigh. Yes, choices have consequences and no one has a crystal ball to predict the future. I can just never understand how/why people feel like it is okay to force their opinion/agenda on someone else. They don't have to live your life, you do. Ugh! I'm kind of pissed off on your behalf now. Hang in there. Deb (Deb2You2)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-258719512594313962008-10-31T01:39:00.000-04:002008-10-31T01:39:00.000-04:00Well, Sarah, I do have to say that I also find the...Well, Sarah, I do have to say that I also find the comments left on your blog by your 'friends' a little over the top when it comes to being supportive (especially the last post regarding the coworker talking about her weekend). <BR/><BR/>However, I also don't think anonymous' comments about you going nowhere are completely true either. You have not liked your job for some time. Thus, trying to change career paths is also doing something to make you happier. You're not sitting still in life and moping. You ARE moving forward. Being happy at work is also very important in life.<BR/><BR/>However, there is the possibility that the time involved in changing careers might make you too old to give birth to any baby (i.e., a donor egg baby) with any useful amount of energy. Perhaps that is something to reflect upon. It might also make you too old to be able to adopt from certain countries as there are age limits on adoptions as well. <BR/><BR/>Perhaps that's what anonymous is getting at. <BR/><BR/>Rae (only posting anonymously because I'm lazy. Rae is, in fact, my real name.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-47665142091513225862008-10-30T21:15:00.000-04:002008-10-30T21:15:00.000-04:00What a jackass! It's truly pathetic that this per...What a jackass! <BR/><BR/>It's truly pathetic that this person seems to really take his/her time to write out a long comment. Why is this person so invested in just being negative (and wrong)? Ass.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15068971808214671163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-59254889327008555952008-10-30T21:07:00.000-04:002008-10-30T21:07:00.000-04:00This sounds like the same anonymous that visited m...This sounds like the same anonymous that visited my site not so long ago. Maybe this is how she gets her jollies. That seems more pathetic than anything we may or may not be getting on with in our own lives. <BR/><BR/>so f-off anonymous I say!Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16645977173145435867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28957363.post-47935964555398260202008-10-30T20:04:00.000-04:002008-10-30T20:04:00.000-04:00Oh PLEASE I wish Anon would just FUCK OFF!!!!!Get ...Oh PLEASE I wish Anon would just FUCK OFF!!!!!<BR/><BR/>Get a life.<BR/><BR/>SO pathetic she or he has nothing better than to read a blog they have nothing in common with and snipe in hiding. How sad sad sad.bleuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00467701792949981337noreply@blogger.com